Holy crap, okay?

I sent a response to an on-line acquaintance who lost a small child about a year ago -- we belong to the same parenting group.

I hastily sent something that, upon reflection, could have been insensitive -- depending on how it was perceived and how familiar you are with me.

As I've mentioned before, sometimes I talk to people like they know what I'm talking about and it can be a problem.

I sent an apology just in case and -- it hasn't posted -- which means they are moderating my posts now.

Excellent, insensitivity to people in the deepest kind of pain a person can experience -- just what I was going for.